Online dating: Sex, Money and Power?

Just imagine you have become maybe the luckiest man ever?
The story.
Once upon a time, a man saw a woman bending over in the street, he asks her what she is doing, picking up a nail, she replies.
He the shy type says ( you are beautiful ).
She was this petite Filipino woman with black eyes and long black hair!

She was heading across the street to the church; we were doing a landscape installation at Saturn of St. Petersburg.

As it happens in life, she was married, but after 7 or more years we are still friends. It is then that I realized this type of woman petite, black eyes and long black hair would become my quest!

So being the shy type, I joined some online dating sites; this why SEX, POWER, AND MONEY are the real story.

Ok, let's be honest in Asian countries there are millions of beautiful women ( guys if your looking)?  But beware women know you want sex, and you will give in to most of their demands, eventually!

Men and women are willing to trade for what they need; maybe it's for just the explosions of sex, or the quest of love and the love is to please your partner?

We foreigners ( men ) are viewed as rich, and if you compare the income differences in most Asain countries we are.

Ok, we are honest here, she is looking for a man to support her, and maybe family ( beware of this ) in cultures like the Philippines, families are very close.

Remember the trade-off, she has the power of sex over you, and you have the power of money; wow stalemate!

Now some rules from a veteran of online dating.
Rule # 1, search for love, and the sex will be gel better!
Rule #2, if you make it more than a day typing back and forth suggest going to video, Skype or Google Hangouts.  Once you go face to face, the truth always surfaces, now it's up to just good communication.

My Story,
Almost five years ago I met Rowena, she started telling me she did not date, she worked in her boarding house and had no time for dating?  So of course, you wonder if this is real? Maybe almost that same day we started using Hangouts, and guess what every time I called she answered.

Yes, she is the hardest working, most understanding woman a man could find; May 24, 2018, we will marry.
Now we live together in Naga City.